I met a guy over the phone about 2
yrs ago but 6 months ago we started a relationship. He wants to meet
up with me but I can't because of personal problems. He says he will
wait and a few days ago he asked me to marry him I want to but my
parents are dead set against it because he's Indian and I'm Pakistani.
I think if I let him go he can find somebody else and I don't want
to make him wait but I love him. What shall I do?
I'm a bit confused. You say he
wants to marry you, but you have never met him yet in person? I
think you should get round to doing this first before you start
thinking about serious issues like love, marriage and your parent's
I'm an Asian 17 year old and I'm
madly hopelessly devotedly in love with my wonderful sexy and dear
and one of a kind boyfriend. I'm afraid we had a passionate night
that has left me pregnant but he doesn't know. Help me massi!
I think you need to tell your
boyfriend asap and then you can both work it out together. You may
also want to pop down to your local health clinic to check out your
options...and pick up some free condoms.
I can't get married.
I'm sorry. These things happen.
have this really big problem. A huge porous inflammation i.e. a
spot! And the biggest problem is that I feel like picking it, but my
boyfriend also wants to pick it. He says he will break up with me if
I don't let him. What shall I do?
You have three
options: a) dump your boyfriend for being so shallow and pick the
spot yourself; b) let your boyfriend pick your spot and leave you
with a hideous deformity or c) let nature (and spot cream) take its
course - you'll make the spot worse by popping it.
Please help me. I have got a
problem and I find it very embarrassing. I am male 21 yrs old and
lately I have noticed hair out side my nose what shall I do?
Give up all hope that you are going
to pull or buy a pair of tweezers and spend an hour torturing
yourself. The choice....is yours!
Give us some tips to help relieve
stress or I might just lose it and crash a plane or something!
I'm assuming you are a pilot then!
Or are living in a fantasy land which has now impinged upon reality.
In either case, I think you should sit down and figure out what is
bothering you first..are you doing too much, do you have money
problems, relationship problems? It could be anything...but once you
pinpoint you can start thinking about how to reduce stress. In the
meanwhile, can you email me a list of all the flights you will be
piloting? Much appreciated.
I need some solid advice I am 19
and am living with my parents. I am in a serious relationship with a
girl for a few years. The dilemma is that I have to marry a cousin
from abroad but I want to marry my girlfriend; I have been told by my
parents to choose between her or them. The only reason they want me
to marry the girl abroad is so that they keep themselves happy, they are
not thinking of my happiness. I would like to compromise with my
parents but unfortunately they are not interested. I know by reading
this you will probably say you're too young or you have to choose between
them or her but I would like you to put yourself in my shoes and
give some advice. I hope you can be helpful I have been advised by a
friend that you can offer people good advice. So if you can help a
brother from the Asian community, isn't that what this website is for?
Then please do, I will be waiting for your reply.
You are not the only one in this
situation; countless Asians in this country are caught in the same
trap of having to wrestle between two cultures - which is what this
boils down to, a clash of cultures. There is no easy answer to your
dilemma. After all, your parents will fight hard to save their way
of life; and you will fight for individual choice. I will say that
you are too young to be making such a choice between your family and
your girlfriend. But you do need to talk to your parents (in a
non-confrontational manner) and see if you can't work something out.
A couple of years breathing space would be a start; these decisions
are not to be taken lightly at such a tender age.
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My boss keeps on giving me really
boring things to do. He is very pedantic and I feel I cannot meet
his exacting standards of English. He is also a complete old woman.
I am thinking of enrolling for a further degree course in September
to escape from him.
What do you think, Auntie?
Do your further degree in English
Somebody crashed into my car and
then drove off. I don't know when it happened but there's another
car at our block of flats with suspicious marks on the front wing
and the bumper hanging off. How do I approach this person and accuse
them of hitting my car? (which will cost me £500 to fix!).
Dear oh dear. There is really no
respect for property these days is there? Perhaps you could approach
the owner of the bruised vehicle and inquire as to how his/her car got
damaged whilst casually adding that your own car was also hit
recently and you were wondering if there was a spate of attacks on
vehicles in the area. A guilty look may confirm your
suspicions...but if it's a big lad then...easy tiger!